Fun masturbation exercise (Part 1/10) 'The Art of Teasing [yourself]'

#2537 · 2012-09-03 11:12:10

I'd like to share some of the masturbation techniques/experiences with all of you. This will be the first of ten.

My most powerful orgasms are the ones I spend a significant length of time building up to. I started doing this in the last few years when I realized that the only thought going through my head while masturbating, other than those that were turning me on and helping me reach climax, was: "after I'm done, I'm going to do this again and again, because it is so amazing" so I would just go for it, come as quickly as I could, just so I could start all over again. I guess with age I started to appreciate quality over quantity and now I practice the art of teasing myself. I bring myself to the the edge of climax, then pull back, tucking my hands away for a few moments, concentrating on my breathing. I do this over and over again until all I can feel is that 'edge'. I swell up to the point that I not only have to keep my hands away so I don't orgasm, but I also have to keep my legs spread because even the slightest movement of my thighs brushing against my sex will cause me to explode. Then it gets to the point that even flexing my muscles would make me come. I try to do this for at least 15 minutes. Then I give in and use both hands at the same time. Of course, this type of orgasm is better than 4-5 mini orgasms. Significantly better.

One time I'm pretty sure I was catapulted to another dimension because I came so hard. I'm talking fractals and all that. It was an entirely spiritual experience.

Kids, do try this at home (then tell me your experience).

Much love,

Grenadine

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uri · 2012-09-04 18:25:57

Hi Grenadine!
Nice, youre talking about your technical experiences. You may find an interesting talking about that stop and go foreplay on the confession-contribution from lady C1323 (A1323, K0502).

Please, have a look also to the I Feel Myself contributors:

Poulette_danse du ventre 1 and 2 (Beautiful Agony 02343)

NakedHuman_delta 2

By the way, a links to a site with lots of information and stories about that kind of techniques.

http://www.solotouch.com/home.php

Abstinence · 2012-09-04 18:46:35

Oh to think I was just about to let my subscription to beautiful agony expire: but now I think I'm gonna have to keep it going so that I can read more of your sexy tips!
I like this idea, it sounds a lot like what I would often do in the bath, or in bed in the morning, particularly when I wasn't in a hurry to go anywhere. I would think sexy thoughts and slowly caress my cock until I got as close to the edge as I dared, then I would stop for a bit, and I would try to do this several times. Sometimes I couldn't control myself and I would ejaculate, but the times I felt the most strong were when I managed not to cum at all even after getting close a number of times, then I would just get up and go about the business of the day with all that energy still inside.
Particularly good if I was looking forward to a "hot date" that day...not that I get that many of those but it's nice to dream.

#2537 · 2012-09-04 22:03:57

I have never tried to abstain from orgasming. I'm not sure if I am strong enough! But I understand the appeal. My ex was a rugby player and we were not 'allowed' to have sex before practices or games because he didn't play as well. I think it may be different for women, or for me because I am stressed out in general so releasing is a good thing, it keeps me calm throughout the day. To each their own, clearly, which is why I love BA!

PS:Thanks Uri, for the recommendations!

Abstinence · 2012-09-05 21:32:58

Grenadine you said
"I think it may be different for women, or for me because I am stressed out in general so releasing is a good thing"

Well maybe it is different for women: that is if you believe what Daniel P. Reid writes in "The Tao of Health, Sex and Longevity". He says that unlike female orgasm, which can be indulged in limitlessly, male ejaculation causes serious loss of essence and should only be allowed very occasionally (at one point he suggests once in every 100 lovemaking sessions, at least when you are getting older). He also says:
"Men who continue masturbating habitually into their 30's, 40's and 50's rob themselves of the very essence and energy that fuels their lives and protects their health...A woman, by contrast, may masturbate to her heart's content without damaging her stores of essence and energy."

I am not saying I agree with the above, but I would love to know what people think.

#2547 · 2012-09-18 01:57:15

I wouldn't agree that female sexual pleasure can be indulged in limitlessly, far from it. In fact it feels unpleasant to touch myself after I orgasm. So yes I have tried to lengthen the act and the buildup is definitely worth it, though it hasn't really worked like that since I was 15. Now they're all just pretty much the same regardless of amount of time put in.

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Abstinence · 2012-09-20 19:09:37

#2547 wrote:

I wouldn't agree that female sexual pleasure can be indulged in limitlessly, far from it. In fact it feels unpleasant to touch myself after I orgasm.

Point taken. Although I was listening to C2326's confession, and she says that she had an orgasm, and she reached what she calls that "squiggly, painful" feeling and didn't want to go on. But instead she decided to "push through", and then she said she had another, then another and so on. She says the more she has, the better they get.
So if she is to be believed, maybe it would be worth your while experimenting a little with this?? I don't know, it's up to you:P

#2547 · 2012-09-21 23:10:56

Interesting, maybe I will

#1 2012-09-03 11:12:10

Fun masturbation exercise (Part 1/10) 'The Art of Teasing [yourself]'

#2 2012-09-04 18:25:57

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