#1 2010-03-01 03:36:21

faith_perfection

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Registered: 2010-02-06

Posts: 3

Long distance

I'm in the military so the majority of my relationships are long distance. It seems like most ladies are shy and not to into sex via phone or web cam but i totally am. It turns me on to know that i can still bring them to orgasm even though I'm thousands of miles away. My question is, how do I get them to open up more? I think it would really expand the relationship but i don't want to seem like a perv.

1775

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Registered: 2010-03-30

Posts: 3

Re: Long distance

Suggest a cam chat and be naked from the start. They might join in.

_gethsemane_

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Registered: 2007-12-10

Posts: 30

Re: Long distance

I guess start off slow, kinda like verbal canoodling I guess. 

Be cutesy and ask slightly naughty questions, breathe a little heavier when you get a response you like...  (but not like a stalker!)  Ask her if there's anything she wants to ask you.

Tell her what you've been missing about her, general stuff about her and then I guess more 'intimate' details, hopefully she will chime in with what she misses about you too.

Maybe ask her to remove an item on clothing, then get her to tell you which one she wants you to remove.

Hmmm, or even tell her to touch herself where she would want you to touch her if you were there.

As a general note, when things get heated the phrase 'I want to make you come' tends to help.

This is just general advice too, all I have in common with whoever you're with is that we're both female - what would work for me may not for her...  Just play it by ear and if she's not into it then don't push it, or you'll just end up getting a negative response.

Hope this is helpful!

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