#1 2008-01-15 06:10:39

Fink77

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From: Jacksonville, Florida, USA

Registered: 2007-08-21

Posts: 6

Just wanted to post a thank you!

Beautiful agony has done something for me that years of watching standard porn has never done.  Namely, improve my own orgasms.  Quite frankly, watching the agonies of my fellow males, I was struck by how--on the whole--they tended to be a little more reserved than those of the females.  This caused me to take a look at my own climaxes, and I realized I was lying there in virtual silence.  Well, I said, damn the neighbors, full steam, or at least full volume, ahead.  Now I breath a lot more while I'm coming, make a lot of noise, and feel my orgasms out to the tips of my toes.  You definitely helped me make something that was very, very good even better.  So thanks!

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"...nobody has ever been able to convince me that anything sexual between consenting individuals is wrong.  I mean, it's like a part of my brain is missing.  Nothing disgusts me.  It all seems innocent, to do with profound sensations, and when people tell me they are offended by things, I just don't know what they mean."  Anne Rice, Exit to Eden.

0536

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Registered: 2007-02-01

Posts: 45

Re: Just wanted to post a thank you!

Awesome!  Agony can inspire us to do lots of things, and I think it's rad that you got a new perspective on your own orgasms by watching others'.  It's interesting how the experience of orgasm can change once you introduce sound/vocalisation. 

You're very welcome!

kitkat2

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Registered: 2006-07-19

Posts: 18

Re: Just wanted to post a thank you!

I think Beautiful Agony performs a very important function.. and you've just illustrated it.. to see what others do gives us an idea of where we are the same and where we differ, and encourages us to expand what we ourselves do. My experience of being involved with the project has started the whole sexual discovery thing all over again, with an expanded mind set that did not exist or was not even available to me when I was a teenager first starting out.  It's like puberty all over again, only wiser, and more confident.  So I also say a big thankyou, and am really happy that the site is providing a similar journey or education for other people.

kitkat2

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Registered: 2006-07-19

Posts: 18

Re: Just wanted to post a thank you!

Also Fink77, I think your partners will be pleased with your expanding vocalisms - it's always good to know what is going on for the other person and harder to tell with out strong cues sometimes.  It's also a damn big turn on to hear the other person moaning uncontrollably!

Fink77

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From: Jacksonville, Florida, USA

Registered: 2007-08-21

Posts: 6

Re: Just wanted to post a thank you!

Dear kitkat2,

You are absolutely right on.  Communication is essential and it's easy to take for granted the other person knows what you're feeling.  For most of us, I think, our sexuality is something we learned to hide at the same time we were exploring it.  We grow up learning to wank, but, at the same time, trying our best not to get caught at it.  So, there you are, an adult, having orgasms, but still holding back from giving full voice to the the sheer, joyous, miracle of it all, as if mom and dad were still sleeping in the next room.  Realizing that I needed to take it off 'mute' was a revelation, and one that the honest, genuine sexuality offered by Beautiful Agony was instrumental in achieving for me.  And, yes, people love it when you moan.

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"...nobody has ever been able to convince me that anything sexual between consenting individuals is wrong.  I mean, it's like a part of my brain is missing.  Nothing disgusts me.  It all seems innocent, to do with profound sensations, and when people tell me they are offended by things, I just don't know what they mean."  Anne Rice, Exit to Eden.

chica

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Registered: 2007-06-21

Posts: 11

Re: Just wanted to post a thank you!

Also Fink77, I think your partners will be pleased with your expanding vocalisms - it's always good to know what is going on for the other person and harder to tell with out strong cues sometimes.  It's also a damn big turn on to hear the other person moaning uncontrollably!

Agreed!