Why did you join BA?

elfman11 · 2006-05-14 12:58:27

Recently a member of IFM (msnevil) posted this thread on the forum there and it raised such interesting replies that I thought I would start a similar thread here. (I appreciate that not all BA members subscribe to IFM). So please tell us. What was it about BA that first attracted you? Here is my explanation. (Copied from IFM).

"I have always had fairly strong voyeuristic tendencies and for me the most sexually arousing thing is the sound of a woman in orgasm. I had subscribed to some of the more mainstream sites on and off for a couple of years. Mainly ones depicting female masturbation or lesbian sex. I find videos of male/female sex uninteresting and sometimes disturbing. A lot of them seem designed to demean and degrade the women in them. (Particularly the recurring theme of the man ejaculating in the womans face. Usually with her on her knees. This has always been very distasteful to me. Like spitting in a womans face to the power of ten). I was brought up to respect and cherish women and throughout my life most of my closest friends have been women. Another thing I found dissatisfying in all of my experiences with conventional porn was the artificiality. It was obvious that I was watching a performance which rendered them un-erotic and made me feel uncomfortable watching them. They made me feel dirty.

I had subscribed to BA on one or two occasions for short periods but in those days you couldnt download the vids (or if you could I didnt know how) and it took forever to stream them from the site so I lost interest and allowed my membership to lapse without getting to know the site or bothering to read about its ethos. It was just another porn site to me. (I didnt even realise that the contributors were not professionals and the orgasms not faked). I revisited in February this year to discover that I could now download the videos. I rejoined and got to know the site and what it stood for (which I applauded). I had finally found a site that gave me what I wanted".

Elfman.

ashmedi · 2006-05-14 13:26:29

I found BA quite by accident. I visited here for about a month reading the forum and tasting the samples. I could not believe how erotic a shoulders up video could be, but thought the orgasms were all the more real from the expressions and the exquisite audio accompaniements. I finally joined and was glad I did. My only regret now is that due to an extreme shortage of long green, I had to let this site lapse and apparently, I have missed some very nice clips.

I, like a number of others, am disenchanted with main stream "directed" orgasms and the fresh faces and natural bodies have an extreme fascination for me.

Bishop Of Bath & Wells · 2006-05-14 16:15:37

BA is actually the first (and so far only) site which taps into a very specific fetish of mine, namely facial expressions during orgasm. Prior to joining BA - and what a sweet moment that was - I'd patiently accumulated a small amount of related material over the years on my internet travels, but most of it was rendered almost completely redundant by the appearance of BA just over two years ago.

Back in 2000/2001 I even dabbled with setting up my own 'orgasm faces' website, but the early test shoots were so poor I quickly lost heart in the project.

Bish

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Jo · 2006-05-17 02:39:06

I discovered BA very early, when only about 5 vids were online. I was fascinated by the real and natural people and the mysticism and their charisma.

The concept of BA to show the face as the most erotic part of the human body was a novum and a very interesting point for me. Unfortunately in the meantime I have to realize, that since IFM exists (and already earlier when the FBA's were discussed again and again), the frequency here went down in a markable way, so I think, most people are not that much interested in beauty and aesthetics but more in consuming fast arousal which I think is a shame...

Ok, I never joined IFM, I keep here as I love this site like it exists!

Ferrett · 2006-05-26 13:35:42

well I heard about this site on a forum in "wife lovers" someone left a link. I was hooked. I have always loved watching womans faces as they cum but now I want to see a bit more as well as faces. May subscribe to IFM

DocDarkside · 2006-12-07 00:08:21

Hmm. Believe it or not, I found out about BA from a column in Esquire Magazine, of all places. I checked out the free video, then decided to subscribe.

I have always found the facial expressions of my partner(s) at orgasm to be extremely erotic. I have often been pushed over the brink myself by watching the face of a girl as she comes under me. I am highly attuned to my partner's pleasure during sex, I guess. My pleasure and enjoyment of the sex act is greatly enhanced by observing/sharing the pleasure my partner is feeling.

I think orgasm is the great equalizer. When we come, we are helpless, vulnerable, yet completely empowered. On BA, we have the privilege of watching people share this ecstatic moment with us. It is erotic, yes, but more important, it is profoundly human and aesthetically beautiful. Rich or poor, old or young, beautiful or ugly, we are all equal when we come (to paraphrase Thomas Hardy).

Pendragon78 · 2006-12-09 06:39:15

I found BA on another website and was instantly in love with the site. It is by far the most erotic and sensual thing I have ever seen. Compared to the other sites where they show everything and make sure it is up close. That is not as captavating as BA. Here you get drawn into it. You get to see what the person feels, and you know it is real by the look on their faces. That is something you will never see on any other website out there. That is why I joined this site.

lostrax · 2006-12-18 03:10:24

just joined because i have been fascinated with facial expressions at moments of orgasm for a long time. perhaps a glimpse of some sort of heaven as presented through bernini's st theresa is a classic. facial expression, e.g glance up/down and left/right, measured against lip bites, e.g. bottom/top or both; and tongue displays read that glimpse of some view of heaven or some attitude of, "I'm ready for my close-up Mr. Deville (devil?)." MY personal experience involves much more invocation of comment including: yes's, squeals, grunts, groans, moans, admiration, and shouted prayers of gratitude to higher authorities. I am amazed and humbled by the number of "shorted" (faked?)orgasms herein. a clue to "successful" performance is that deep breath, grin and sometime giggle at the end as opposed to last dash off camera. so many bite-lip displays, hair or nose touches, distraction side glances, make me wonder how many of these are pieces in some acting portfolio. BUT every now and then a nugget of pure gold is presented and we audience members share the view of something beyond death. WOW this website touches the heart of true humanity and for a moment...holds back the dark of fear and repression. THANK YOU admin for your guts and bravery. (is anyone doing research...for possible publication?...sign me up please!!)

principessa · 2006-12-20 04:45:01

When I first heard of BA... I think it was a trailer on HBO... I didn't find it very erotic bc they only featured - what else - women (sorry guys). I'm a very sexual female but just wasn't turned on by it. A few years later I found a link to this site through another website dedicated solely to masturbation. They actually had a link for a male video, and I was hooked. I simply had to have more. I am fascinated by male masturbation.

But the main reason is that the videos on this site are so real.

Ferrett · 2006-12-20 11:27:48

principessa it's good to know that you have similar feelings to most blokes on this site. Well the opposite really.

romanticrocker · 2006-12-24 16:22:31

i read about it in suicidegirls.com and was curious about it
i joined today and am absolutely satisfied. i think there is nothing more erotic than the facial expression while having an orgasm

autumn · 2007-02-10 11:28:01

I came across this site by accident. I am a female, and said if I was ever a guy I'd sleep with lots of women because I want to see a womans face when she orgasms. I came across this site and it is a dream come true. LOT'S of women having orgasms! Same day I found it I signed up. I have never paid to see a site. Some males I do like to watch, but the women are fantastic. I have always been voyeuristic. At some point I will submit myself.

Avinashi · 2007-03-18 19:22:15

I found the site on a sex blog and website reveiw page called sugarclicks. I didn't subscribe immeadeately, because at the time I was subscribing to suicidegirls and I didn't think I could justify 2 subscriptions at once. I should have cancled my SG subscription then and there.

I never got very excited looking at women all dolled up and posed, and I've never really liked mainstream hardcore porn for most of the reasons mentioned above. It seems fake, degrading, and unbelivably repetative. It completely ignores the personal and emotional components of arousal.

This site makes me excited to go out and discover new ways to make my partners as blissful as the artists I see here. I love you all. I'm sure I'll be submitting soon.

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dragonbrag · 2007-03-23 15:28:01

Great question.
I have joined this site now on 3 separate occasions, simply because it is so unique and genuinely erotic. If anyone wants my definition of "erotic", then this site is it.
For me, it is both a tremendous turn-on and strangely touching that these frequently ordinary-looking people are willing to show us their face while pleasuring themselves. Some may be faked, but vast majority are, I strongly believe, not.
Also I think Lauren has shown a wonderful talent for editing these things that just brings home the point that everyone is sexy.
Porn consumers are hit so frequently with the same old thing...perfect bodies, shaved, perfect hair, etc.etc.
that this site stands alone on the internet as showing real people coming. The Newbie Nudes site, which frequently has postings of genitals alone, cannot compare to this. Funny how just genitalia strikes one as so very impersonal. This site uses the fact that the more personal, the sexier and I think it may be alone on the 'net for doing that.
The confessions are great, too. These are real people wearing their ordinary clothes.
I find the greatest thrill to run the confession side by side with the agony. A truly private moment shared with a grateful voyuer.

Demeester · 2007-11-20 20:45:17

Some time ago I was searching for online informtion on 'petit mal', for some reason typed 'petit mort' by mistake - and oops I found BA and a free download of 019 orgasming and smiling so, so cutely and naturally.

godcharles · 2007-11-20 23:13:04

Friends,

I had ordered some vids from Adultdvdmarketplace.com, and went to the site to check on my order. While doing so, I saw a link in the pane for some kind of site (with a womans name) that I clicked on to see what it was about. It turned out to be a site run by person/persons who apparently visit adult sites to rate them. In other words, they sift through the detritus, so YOU dont have to. While there I saw another pane ad for something called, "Beautiful Agony". I wondered what that was and clicked on it. You know what I found. I'd only had my DSL connection for a little over a week, and this was the site I'd been looking for !!!!!!!! I followed every link I could, and knew I had to join. I whipped out my credit card, and clicked the link. To my utter delight, they were offering a life-time subscription !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Yea !!!!!!! I signed up for it immediately. It took me only one week to download the entire sites worth of female agonies, and their partners (if present, and of course if it was obvious). That was in the neighborhood of a month ago. I'm still trying to get caught up on watching them all. I've just finished watching 746, and I have to get a cat-nap before heading off to work. I'm thinking about a week. I should be done then. To all U.S. readers, happy Thanksgiving. Which reminds me, tomorrow will be the 23rd anniversary of my discovering the joy of the written word thanks to Stephen King, and "Christine". That book changed my life. Just thought I'd mention it. Ciao for now, CKB.

rufflesandlace · 2009-07-19 19:18:13

I found it through a LiveJournal community called "The Female Gaze" which is a discussion group that focuses on what imagery women find attractive and a turn-on. I was immediately smitten by the free samples, and a week later I was looking at the thumbnails for the male videos and noticed someone who looked VERY familiar...

Gock9596 · 2009-07-23 02:11:47

Noticed it in Playboy magazine. These are bright, witty, and natural gals. Not with some ugly guy, just a girl next door type and doing what comes natural. Do not like the demeaning stuff of regular porn. BA shows respect to the people involved and that is so wonderful in this day and age.

_gethsemane_ · 2009-07-23 23:49:22

I submitted my Agony after completing the ishotmyself project, that's how I found out about it...

This is seriously a beautiful representation of sexuality and expression, the Confessions frame the Agonies with context and an insight into the why, how and who of everyone on this site.

(I'm #220 btw - sadly never was able to film a confession as I submitted in the early days of the site)

tom29 · 2009-08-28 16:38:06

I found the site surfing around. I guess Im a porn/sex addict, but have always been a bit of a voyeur, and this may sound kinky, but the look in a womans eyes and face and the sound of her voice when we are fucking and she orgasms, is enough to bring bring me over the edge with her. I totally loose it!

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