#1 2007-06-06 16:45:25

agony666q

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Registered: 2007-02-04

Posts: 6

Three's a Crowd?

Hey agonizers,

Lately I've noticed more female agonies that involve unseen male helpers. I know variety is the spice of life, BA can be many things, and it's great for the contributors, has great value and all that, and I don't object per se. But am I alone when I say that it can be a bit of a turnoff if you're not expecting it? You know the old saying about two is company, three's a crowd? Well... from the BA consumer's point of view, all of a sudden you go from being "the company" to "the crowd", if you take my meaning. I would be willing to bet that many of the male subscribers here have "the blues". Say yer lady is off with another guy. BA gets the mind off of it for awhile. Everything's great and ... oh bollocks, was that another man I just heard? Can't I get away for even a minute? ARRRGH.

A little warning flag would be nice, that's all... it seems there have been quite a few lately.

Am I being too selfish? (hmmm)

dauphinb

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Registered: 2005-12-21

Posts: 66

Re: Three's a Crowd?

Lately I've noticed more female agonies that involve unseen male helpers. ... am I alone when I say that it can be a bit of a turnoff if you're not expecting it?

Whatever turns you on (or off) is what it is... but I must say I'm on the exact opposite side of the fence on this one: I actively look for hints that there's a helper involved, and those clips are my favorites. I particularly like it when the "help" comes in the form of actual intercourse.

"'To each his own,' said the lady as she kissed the cow," eh?

gala

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Registered: 2006-04-11

Posts: 14

Re: Three's a Crowd?

I think you are being too selfish, agony666q, but we all get a bit selfish sometimes.  I think you should just celebrate the fact that these people are here at all, sharing their orgasms with you - what does it matter how those orgasms actually come about?  Most of us could probably afford to be a little less jealous and a little more excited about other folks' pleasure - not just in regards to Agony but in general. 

It's cool that you're getting cerebrally involved the with contributions here, but it's a shame that you've backed yourself into a situation in which, when someone else comes into the Agonee's scene, you feel pushed out.  It's an interesting way to engage Agony in your fantasies - and if you think of it in that way, maybe you can alter the fantasy somewhat to make it more gratifying for you.  I think it's unlikely that you'll get a warning flag about 'partnered' Agonies - it wouldn't really make sense within the concept of the site. 

I think three's a party.

agony666q

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Registered: 2007-02-04

Posts: 6

Re: Three's a Crowd?

Hi folks, yes of course your response is the ideal one, and I know the purposes and pleasures of the site are manyfold. But I'm only human! I guess I just wish the helper would announce themselves in some unabiguous way fairly early on (a hearty grunt, or the like) without the site having to label it artificially. For me, wondering if a helper is a figment of my imagination (or not) is a bit on the distracting side. I guess it's a bad memory trigger for me. Back when I had co-ed roomates in my youth, I found myself in the unfortunate situation of having to hear ex-lovers with new ones (or worse yet, half-involuntarily straining to hear if they are getting it on or not) when I'm trying to go to sleep in my own bed...  telling myself I didn't care, but with little else to dwell on at 2am. It's hard to sleep with headphones on. Oh well.

Over at Ifeelmyself, where many of the aesthetics of BA have been turned upside down and sideways, they have come up with an extensive icon system telling you more about what you're getting in any given video (not that I have figured this system out or even really used it). I do admire how austere this site is with its style and wouldn't want to mess with the formula very much.

OK, I'm in an orgasm museum, not getting a private lapdance... gotta get that straight in my head... sorry

gala

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Registered: 2006-04-11

Posts: 14

Re: Three's a Crowd?

Hey, at least you're honest!

Ell

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From: Australia

Registered: 2005-01-11

Posts: 99

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Re: Three's a Crowd?

Over at Ifeelmyself, where many of the aesthetics of BA have been turned upside down and sideways, they have come up with an extensive icon system telling you more about what you're getting in any given video (not that I have figured this system out or even really used it). I do admire how austere this site is with its style and wouldn't want to mess with the formula very much.

OK, I'm in an orgasm museum, not getting a private lapdance... gotta get that straight in my head... sorry

I love it! An orgasm museum! I snorted and chortled tea when I read that! (sorry for the gruesome word picture there )...that'd make Lauren the Orgasm Curator - too cute.

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His eyes seem to lead him to where his mouth needs to be.

Avinashi

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Registered: 2007-03-17

Posts: 20

Re: Three's a Crowd?

I love finding out that there's a someone helping out.  I think it's super sexy.

Since it's not always obvious that there's a second person involved, I think it would be difficult to lable anyways.

felneymike

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Registered: 2007-07-15

Posts: 24

Re: Three's a Crowd?

As i quite like "hidden camera" and "home movie" type porn (where the sex is geniune and "as it happens") having somebody else in on the agony doesnt bother me. Though if anybody here is ever living next door to me and i buy a drill, watch out XD