#1 2007-04-11 22:47:55

irishwolfhound

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A question for the fair ladies in the house...

How would you feel, if the first time you were intimate with a man, he asked to watch you bring yourself to orgasm before anything else happens?  Personal experience (and viewing the clips here) tells me that women vary greatly in how they like to be touched. My thinking is that this would be a good way to learn what would please her.

Your thoughts?

Ferrett

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

I'm a bloke but I have found that doing this helps a lot, believe it or not I have taught a couple how to do it. It is great to watch a woman have her first orgasm (only done this once).

irishwolfhound

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

Male opinions gladly accepted!

Avinashi

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

It would very much depend on the situation.  In principle I think it's a great idea, but I might not feel comfortable enough with a new partner to masterbate in front of them right off the bat.  In the right context though, it would be a real turn on for someone else to be so interested in how I like to get myself off.

lauren

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

It would, for me, depend upon the guy I was with and how comfortable I felt at the time. I wouldn't be against it in any way and certainly wouldn't feel uncomfortable being asked. I'm wondering though, would the guy also be participating solo?? I think it only fair that the experience be a mutual one.

Lauren xo

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irishwolfhound

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

Lauren-  an interesting point about it being mutual.  Perhaps better if done alternating?  That way each can enjoy their experience (watching and getting off) without missing anything.  I'd certainly have no objection putting on a show for the lady, especially if she had done the same for me.  Of course, ladies do have the advantage of a much shorter time to recover & be ready to go again.  Men...at least ones my age...may want to save theirs for later.  On the other hand, if she really enjoyed this...there will almost certainly be a next time.

Ell

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

Interesting question irishwolfhound, I wouldn't mind being asked but as others have mentioned it'd depend on my level of comfort with my partner. Another thing that came to mind, the way I touch myself can be quite different from how I enjoy being touched by my lover. I most often just masturbate to orgasm stroking my clit in a very specific way, when I'm with my sweetheart I don't get off in exactly the same way, I usually want some kind of penetration to go along with any pussy loving going on. That's not to say that you couldn't pick up a lot of information from watching -- and face it, it's got to be a whole lot of fun! I like to watch too!

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irishwolfhound

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

Ell-  thanks for the information.  A bit ironic, isn't it?  That we would be more hesitant to let a new lover watch us touch ourselves, than to let them touch us in a most intimate matter.  Odd creatures, we humans.

Ferrett

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Re: A question for the fair ladies in the house...

I think we all like to watch Ell otherwise we wouldn't be here.
I have asked first time but usually wait to after a few sessions then play with ourselves together. Not that I have had that many partners.