#26 2005-09-08 04:15:12

erdna

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Registered: 2005-06-30

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

twibble, if you look at the subject "am I odd ?" on this forum, you will see post from Ilana and Pumpkin (both are straight girls) having the same reaction than yours with some answers and more questions related to that reaction.

pinguin

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Registered: 2005-06-07

Posts: 80

Re: Men! Tell the truth!

hiding in the cupboard, excitingly sneaking a peek into something that is not theirs to see.

Yep, that's me. I'm the pervert in the closet. I'm only watching and do not imagine myself participating in the fun.

afinecouple

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Registered: 2005-09-08

Posts: 15

Re: Men! Tell the truth!

new to the site so I can only respond to my imediate reaction. but I have watched several of the men and it was a lot of fun !

afc

PrairieFire

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Registered: 2005-09-10

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

I'm new here and haven't started watching many of the clips yet.   Will focus on the females, but I'll definitely watch some/all of the men, too.   

I like watching guys orgasm in hard core because of the vicarious thrill that it could be me...same here, I would expect.

I am curious though, with most of the clips taken with the subject on his/her back, aren't there some of the men whose emissions are powerful enough so that they appear on camera? 

I know mine would (some of the time)  LOL

displaced

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Registered: 2005-09-25

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

I am a male.
I watch only the female contributions.
I watch them for the sensation you described as "I can almost feel within me exactly what they're experiencing"

Hi!  (New here -- not yet joined, waiting for pay-day!)

al, I know what you mean.  I don't know how many of you know the British comic Eddie Izzard, but he once described himself as "a lesbian trapped in a man's body"...   which I thought was hysterical, and sometimes amazingly incisive

I've not seen any of the mens' agonies yet -- I will do once I've joined.  It should be interesting.  In 'regular' porn, the men usually p*ss me off.  It's usually about how deep, how fast, and how many different positions.  It ain't what you'd call 'earnest'.

So, yeah -- there's certainly a curiosity about what a genuine bit o' self-satisfaction looks like on another guy.  But I don't think I'd really identify with what they're feeling on any particularly visceral level.  I'm not really wired to appreciate the aesthetic, either.  Who knows?  In the absence of a male preview vid, I'll have to wait till payday to find out.

The two sample vids I've seen (both women) are glorious.  Maybe it's just clitoris envy, or a latent contempt for a fair portion of my own sex....  but the female orgasm's fascinating; beautiful. 

Thanks for putting together something so erotic, beautiful, intriguing, and human.

(although in all honesty it does rather confirm my opinion that, if I were a woman, I probably would just stay at home all day and play with myself!)

greer643

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Registered: 2005-10-17

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It fascinates me to see the huge range of expressions that pass over the artists' faces -- expressions of joy, sadness, longing, sometimes triumph or even goofiness -- ecstasy seems to be a mix of them all, and that mix is as individual as an orgasm.  Women, for the most part, seem to have better access to a wider range of emotion than men do, which makes their ecstatic mix a whole lot more fun to watch.  Are there exceptions? Sure. Political correctness aside (We're all OK, yadda yadda), some women are just as boring to watch as some men. Personally, if I read posts that a guy is just as compelling as say, Ms. 340, then I'll take a look. If someone compares a guy vid to say, lauren's submission, then i'll know its overstatement & won't bother. There's only so much time in a day and only so much I can rub before my bits get sore, so why not spend my time on the female vids....

Fat bald guy -- sorry, I'm not going to go back and look your name up-- I for one would watch your vid, for the same reason I watch many of the less-fair on the site: this place has almost nothing to do with physical beauty. so rub one off and let's see it.

dragonbrag

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Registered: 2005-03-24

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

Dear No. 1 steelerfan,

    Did U ever post an agony?

Avinashi

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

I'm a bisexual female, and I love watching both genders.  I really really wish that more men would contribute their agonies and get posted. 

When I watch the women's agonies, I mostly get excited for her or with her, not so much by her if there acutally is a difference.  It reminds me of how hot my own orgasms are, and it reminds me of of how exciting it is when the women I'm with get off. 

I like to watch the men's agonies partly out of curiosity, partly because it reminds me of the excitment of getting my partner off.

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101

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Registered: 2005-08-05

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Well, I'm a straight guy.  However, I have watched many of the male agonies simply out of curiousity.  I've never... ya know... been with a guy. So I don't know what other guys do or how they respond.  I think it's interesting how quiet most of them are.  I dunno.  Not very vocal.

dauphinb

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Registered: 2005-12-21

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I think it's interesting how quiet most of them are.  I dunno.  Not very vocal.

My theory is that it comes from years of practice being stealthy while pulling one off in a dorm room, camp cabin, etc. But that's just a theory...

felneymike

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Registered: 2007-07-15

Posts: 24

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I made an "agony" myself on webcam once (resolution is a bit too low to submit here but i miiight post a link from my own site XD). To be honest i had always found male orgasms less 'graceful' and sexy than female ones (in normal porn, which just bores me anyway), but my own one was quite hot (in fact i must confess to masturbating over it XD). I'll make one for this site someday ^-^.

Oh yeah, and i'm normally quite quiet through nessescity, but when i'm alone in the house i really let myself go and get quite loud. But enough talk, i'm off to the male section XD

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kitkat2

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Registered: 2006-07-19

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

I personally love watching the men, I find it incredibly erotic.  I also have the honour of interviewing people for the confessions, and the experience is quite amazing.  It is a rare woman that will arouse me in her orgasm, here or on I Feel Myself, but I enjoy talking to women about their sexuality immensely, I guess I can relate to what they are saying.  When I talk to the men I find it is much more my personal curiosity about how it feels for a man, what their experiences are, and it is from the angle of never being able to truly comprehend.  As for watching the men, I guess it is about the angle you are coming from sexually.  I personally love to experience arousing my partner to distraction, I love driving a man to the brink, it is incredibly arousing for me, so I think that is why I love watching the men so much.  I also wonder sometimes if a) I am a slightly masculine woman in the way I express my sexual drive, and b) perhaps women are more narcissistic than men (and Jungian psychology has some interesting theories on the purpose of narcissism in the soul's journey towards health/liberation) and that is why women enjoy watching and fantasising about other women so much, as it is basically an impulse towards the self?

Not sure if this is all making sense to anyone else, or if I have left out some vital threads that remain in my thought processes, as I am still thinking it through.

What do you all think?

BlueBohemian

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Registered: 2007-06-30

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To me, men often look awkward. I might even think, "Oh, look there. He's slamming the ham", which is to say, there doesn't seem to be the variety in men's orgasms that there is in women. Women achieve orgasm with vibrators, fingers, sometimes while lying on their stomachs, they wriggle, moan, squirm, get these really incredible glassy-eyed agony's. But guys? we lay flat on our back and flog Molly. The end.  I watch male orgasms mechanically, but women I watch with affectionate fascination. I usually hit the stop button on a male right about when I go, "Oh, I guess I look like that too."

I have been fantasizing about maybe doing a video that is totally the sort of male O that I would be interested in watching...I don't know though. It might end up being nothing special and live as interesting only in my imagination. I guess I'll just have to give it a go.

What are some reasons people haven't posted videos?  What are the reasons for posting video? Interested to hear responses from M and F.

Last edited by BlueBohemian (2007-07-18 04:51:10)

mikefd369

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Registered: 2006-04-23

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Re: Men! Tell the truth!

You bring up a good point bohemian. Ashley Hames' agony is a perfect example in my opinion. I enjoyed it. Don't get me wrong. But his process is typical of the performance issues so many men have. Must get erection. Must orgasm. That's all it is for them. They haven't been taught or allowed themselves to explore their bodies and discover the many levels and types of pleasure. One biggie is anal for example. Anyway, take it slow. Enjoy the trip. The time before orgasm is more physically pleasurable than the time after, so why not enjoy it for as long as you can? I'll go hours given the opportunity. To the point where I am blacking out I am so deliriously excited. What is the point otherwise?