#1 2006-06-19 12:58:07

Vaudeville

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A confession about Confessions.

Yesterday I watched BA #561, which I think is very hot and special, but I found myself hesitating when I was about to view the Confession. I've noticed this reaction before, and I think I know the reason why it's there: whether I'm aware of it or not, I automatically create some sort of fantasy about circumstances and the lady having the agony when I watch a submission. I have found in the past that watching a Confession somehow damages the fantasy to some extent, so now I tend to avoid seeing them at all. (The exception being miss 452, who has such a wonderfully extreme personality that her Confession rather enhances the fantasy.) Am I being odd here? Does anyone agree or have a completely different standpoint? I'm not critisising the Confessions as such, just pondering my own reaction to them.

Burlesque/Vaudeville/Ye olde dirty bastard.

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JerryB76

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

very interesting view piont.  I have had the opposite experience, I really like to view the confesion before the agony and really do not look at too many which do not have confesions anymore.  I feel like it makes closer to the young lady and more understanding of her.  I try to imagine what they will be llike when I watch their agony, sometimes I am pretty close other times I am way off in how I imagine they will react and behave duringtheir agony.

tannsolo

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Hello there, Olde Vaudie-Burle!

You write:

Am I being odd here? Does anyone agree or have a completely different standpoint?

I not only heartily agree, I also have a completely different standpoint!

So -- yes! Methinks that's why the smart people in control have separated the confessions from the agonies. (and since I penned but did not post this post, the gentleman from Virginia has posted above in similar fashion.)

Your hesitation to view confessions seems to me like my hesitation to view two people together, since it conflicts with my little fantasy that i'm actually with the person or something [eg: "insert YOURSELF here!"].  Although I would really be a much more sane and happy person right now if I could have been in the bed with Lauren and Liandra, chatting about things. And, while we're at it, is there no way for a person to view what happened before that confession?? As they say in Brooklyn, Ah'm dyin ovah heah!

What's interesting is that while I feel exactly the same way as you (one influences the other in a significant way) I like Mr J only watch the agonies of the people who have made confessions. And I watch the confession first. This creates the illusion that I actually know the person, am somehow connecting with him/her.

My guess is that you have a fairly already-well-scripted erotic plan in your mind, and want someone to fill it.

whilst I have a "hi; I'd like to know you; take me somewhere with you and tell me about yourself and let's chat and kiss and stuff. And then if the feeling is mutual and -- gosh, the light is shining off your hair so beautifully -- perhaps you'd let me hold you up against that tree and lick you oh-so-delicately and fuck you really hard ." or whatever.

Seems like two sides of the same coin.

Last edited by tannsolo (2006-06-19 15:10:44)

Vaudeville

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Thank you, JerryB76 and Tannsolo! You have actually made me a little experimental, I dare say. I should probably be put away on a charge of "No imagination", but I really hadn't thought of looking at the confessions first in order to heighten the experience. What a spiffing idea, chaps! I'll put it into practice as soon as I've been prescribed some intelligence-enhancing medication, which I appear to be in dire need of.

Thanks again for widening my view and making BA even more fun for me! And Tannsolo, you are an extremely entertaining writer!

Burlesque/Vaudeville/Lots of naked women (did I just write that!?)

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sirgeorge

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

(The exception being miss 452, who has such [...]

Burlesque/Vaudeville/Ye olde dirty bastard.

btw
miss 452 is not listed under the confessionsmenu, nevertheless you'll find it under her agony

richard?

sirgeorge, just wondering

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dauphinb

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Does anyone agree or have a completely different standpoint?

Frankly, the Confessions per se don't do much for me (nor the interview/confession Overkills nor Lucubrations over at IFM... though some of the comments have me rethinking that last): I'm primarily here (and there) for the orgasms, not for chat. That said, there are times when I'm unsure about what's going on (Does she have a partner? Are they having intercourse? Etc.), and in those cases I often check the Confession (if there is one) to find clues.

So where you sometimes avoid the Confessions to preserve the mystery, I sometimes consult the Confessions to solve the mystery. Diff'rent strokes, eh?

Vaudeville

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Sounds logical to me, Dauphinb. One can't help but wonder in some instances.

I have now begun my little experiment in watching confessions first, and yes, sometimes it does add a little something, as in the case of Miss 556. I'll probably go on doing this, it's jolly good fun .

Burlesque.

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JerryB76

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

I have also tried your method of watching the agony first and then the confession.  Both methods have their merits, I still like to look at the young lady and tried to decide is she quiet, loud, a squirmer, etc.  I am wrong more times than I am correct in my prediction, I guess that says a lot about mens ability to understand women.  I will also confess, one of the really nice things about the confessions is the accents, I really enjoy the accents.

Vaudeville

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Oooh yes! I love accents!

Burlesque/Vaudeville/All that jazz.

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tannsolo

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Thanks again for widening my view and making BA even more fun for me! And Tannsolo, you are an extremely entertaining writer!

Burlesque/Vaudeville/Lots of naked women (did I just write that!?)

oh, thank you, Mr Vaudie-Burl! Incidentally, I keep meaning to tell you that your threadname is very clever.

(I just wanted to step in here and say that I, too, love accents.)

cheers --

siobhan tannsolo

Vaudeville

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Aha. Siobhan Tannsolo! Things are clearer now (very unusual for me, that).

Thanks. Accents are lovely, but I just discovered that there is one thing that's even lovelier: French! (Miss 559)

Burlesque/Vaudeville/Three ring nude circus.

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petechons

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Re: A confession about Confessions.

Sorry to join this thread late, but what's this about MIss 559 speaking French? She's one of my favorites, but to my knowledge, there's no confession. Was that a typo or something?