#1 2005-11-18 01:13:59

Garybob

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Registered: 2005-10-28

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What does "Sexy" mean?

I am relatively new to this forum, although I have been a member of the site for a long time.

I have noticed that there are a wide variety of sexual "tastes" among the participants in the forum from reading many of the posts.

For my own curiosity, I'd like to get a sense of what people find really sexy or enjoyable in their intimate encounters.

In another forum of which I am a member, people list thing such as:

Large breasts
Large penis
Big Booty
Urination
Mutual masturbation
voyeurism
Glory Holes

You get the idea.

erdna

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

Garybob, for me (sexy) means: sexually attractive, source of sexual inspiration, good exemple to dream about or fantasize about, what is getting me horny, what I can imagine when doing an "agony"... I wish girls on this forum will answer to give their point of view.

Ceredwyn

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Registered: 2005-11-11

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

The things I find attractive in a partner are fluency in language, an age similar to my own, general health and fitness, long hair, and an ability to flirt gracefully and have a sense of humour about the inevitable silly things that occur (because sex really does look damn silly sometimes, and if you can't laugh at things that sometimes go wrong, you'll probably be pretty miserable).  And good hygiene - which is a complete and utter dealbreaker if it's not there.  Got all of that?  Well, most of the rest is windowdressing.  Well, maybe long, black hair, tattoos and piercings are nice, but they certainly aren't required.

I fear that what the word 'sexy' usually means is the latest piece of tech I've been able to somehow wrangle, or glossy print or piece of street art I see.  See that piece of stencil art on the wall?  The one with the cameo of Frank from Donnie Darko?  Now that's sexy.  The word's migrating in meaning a bit.

Tellin

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

To me, there are three different levels of sexual attraction. And the lines between the levels are at a constant flux, depending on my mood, age or level of maturity. But as things are for me right now, here are my levels:

1) Nice! This is the lowest level. A thought would be, "Wow, wonder if she's really a blonde." or "Nice boobs!" A firecracker.

2) Sexy. Slightly higher than the last level, thoughts at this level might be, "Man, I'd love to do her!" A stick of dynamite.

3) Sensual. This is the highest level. This is the ultimate in turn-ons for me. This is where you might hear me say, "Holy Crap! Would you marry me?" A Rocket!

I realize this is a little tongue-in-cheek, as I meant it to be that way. The way a woman presents herself to me has much more to do with where she is on my personal sex-o-meter that how she looks. Tall or short, heavy or anorexic, plain or exotic. It doeasn't matter to me. A total Miss Universe type woman may rise no higher than nice on my list. And the most plain woman in the world may rise to the Sensual level. It's all in how she carries herself. How she presents herself. And the same woman can be in any of the three categories.

Just as an example or two, Ms. 0081 (our own Ruby) and Ms. 309, rise all the way to the top for me. The way they present themselves, both in their video contributions here and in their words in this forum and at ISM puts them in this class for me. Just a handful of the agonees here rise to that level. The majority of the agonees here fall under the sexy category. And maybe 25% are residing in my "Naughty but nice" level.

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Garybob

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

I realize this is a little tongue-in-cheek, as I meant it to be that way. The way a woman presents herself to me has much more to do with where she is on my personal sex-o-meter that how she looks. Tall or short, heavy or anorexic, plain or exotic. It doeasn't matter to me. A total Miss Universe type woman may rise no higher than nice on my list. And the most plain woman in the world may rise to the Sensual level. It's all in how she carries herself. How she presents herself. And the same woman can be in any of the three categories.

---Tellin

I agree completely with you Tellin. I have the same standards. Particularly with the miss universe thing. I have found that the really pretty, real drop-dead gorgeous girls are just sh-t in the bedroom. They rely so much on their looks that they never learn to "work it" when its time to get down to business.

Garybob

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

Retarted girls! Now that's a great group. They will do anything you want and they don't say things like, "Stop, it hurts!"

Sometimes when the mood strikes me, I go out and find a retarded bend-over babe and BAM!!! 

Garybob

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

Okay, sick joke! But I could help that one. Was an old inside joke me and the boys used to get a laugh at in high-school.

Jo

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

In another forum of which I am a member, people list things such as:

Large breasts
Large penis
Big Booty
Urination
Mutual masturbation
voyeurism
Glory Holes

You get the idea.

Sorry Bob, but above all the things mentionned NOTHING does it for me.

Sexy-ness is not a matter of physical aspects in my opinion. For me its sexy, if the girl besides me is able to correspond with me in a way of deep understanding, is able to laugh, be tender and particularly is honest. In her actions, desires, words and reactions. And she needs to give back what I send out. In a very sensitive way.

Of course, I like a agreable body, I like (long and neat) hair, and most of all: a grin in the face...

I need to be sure: she is SHE. Then it's sexy.

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Tellin

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

Retarted girls! Now that's a great group. They will do anything you want and they don't say things like, "Stop, it hurts!"

Sometimes when the mood strikes me, I go out and find a retarded bend-over babe and BAM!!! 

Okay, sick joke! But I could help that one. Was an old inside joke me and the boys used to get a laugh at in high-school.

And a very bad one as well. Kind of makes me wonder if you are legally able to be accessing this site because of the age restriction.

PC elmo

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

For my own curiosity, I'd like to get a sense of what people find really sexy or enjoyable in their intimate encounters.

I think this is a really good question.

"Sexy," for me, has always been sort of a made-up term.  Referring to clothing, it strikes me as an attempt at a tasteful antonym to "conservative" -- revealing, but not completely immodest.  Referring to personality or just about anything else, it strikes me as an excuse to inject the syllable "sex" into the mainstream vocabulary.

If I had to settle on a meaning, I'd choose "suggestive."  And suggestive of what?  The dictionary says it has to do with sexual attraction.  So, a girl in a low-cut, midriff-revealing shirt could be sending the message, "It's summer, it's really hot out, and wearing this makes me comfortable."  Then the outfit looks "cool" or "comfortable."  Or, she could be sending the message "Don't I have pretty skin just above my breasts and around my belly?  Wouldn't you like to have sex with me?" in which case, the same outfit looks "sexy."  In other words, "suggestive" is usually in the eyes of the beholder.

As far as what I find attractive in a woman, I prefer to drop the emphasis on the sexual part of sexual attraction.  So, before it's "would I like to have sex with her," it's "would I like her?"  I don't seem to be alone in this:

I need to be sure: she is SHE. Then it's sexy.

It feels very intuitive to me that authenticity be a prerequisite for any real "suggestion" of an attraction that's sexual in nature.  And further, I prefer intimate encounters that do not require sex to be intimate.

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"There is always room for something more."

Garybob

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Re: What does "Sexy" mean?

Well then, that's it. Lots of really good feedback and some very interesting, my bad joke notwithstanding.

Tellin, you are right to take issue with my remark. I acknowledge that it was juvenile and I openly apologize to you or anyone else who was offended.