#26 2005-08-08 11:35:13

salsasalsa

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Registered: 2005-08-07

Posts: 98

Re: Female orgasm

...I had a lover that made no noise at all, but her nipples became hard when she came. Absolute silence. I also had a lover that screamed so loud and thrashed so much that she bruised me all the time and the neighbors called the cops for the noise.

All good. All good...

Definitely all good :-)
The nipples of most women I've known hardened when they became very aroused, not when they came.
What did the cops do? I am curious.

Born2bWild

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Registered: 2005-08-02

Posts: 6

Re: Female orgasm

Well, since you wanted the female view on this, I can give you mine.  Personally, I'm pretty quiet when I masturbate.  When I'm having sex with my husband I'm VERY vocal.  It's a communication/connection thing I guess.  When I'm alone I'm only "communcating" with myself..inside my head! lol

joeintoronto

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Registered: 2005-08-08

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Re: Female orgasm

While fooling around yesterday morning I noticed my wife was not really responding and was probably not really enjoying herself as much as I would have hoped. I did something I have done a few times before which is to let her know how good she was making me feel by breathing a little more ragged and loud and by telling her it was feeling great (in a 'oh I'm getting really, really close' sort of way) almost instantly she became three times wetter and started to respond in a way that let me know I was finding the right spots.

So for us sound and being thoughtful about letting thenother guy know its feeling good helps to add a layer of pleasure.

jamesd

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Registered: 2005-07-31

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Re: Female orgasm

Worth remembering that those appearing here are a self-selected group of women who are likely to be more comfortable with nudity and sexuality than average. Then there's the selection proces by the site operators, which is likely to choose the more interesting appearances.It's no surprise that they may be more expressive than average.

sammy

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Registered: 2005-08-26

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Re: Female orgasm

My partner allways has a really loud explosive orgasam
when we make love and she decide to take the lead

erdna

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Registered: 2005-06-30

Posts: 441

Re: Female orgasm

In the summer time few years ago, I had no air conditioning at the time and had to leave the bedroom windows open. I got the cops knocking at the door and they left only after they could see and hear my girlfriend telling them that everything was fine and that she was a consenting adult. She just had been too vocal when we made love that night (a real screamer) and we have been heard by Mr or Ms McNasty who decided to call the police letting them believe there was some sort of violence done in my house. Since I was with bare torso and my girlfriend came behind me, she started laughing loudly when she saw her nail marks on my back when me talking to the cops.

Patrik1

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Registered: 2005-08-27

Posts: 14

Re: Female orgasm

I started this topic a long time ago and I am grateful to read all the interresting posts that have been made during the months gone.

I am happy to know that there are so many vocal women out there. When making love to your woman it doubles a mans pleasure to know for sure that she is enjoying herself.

My wife has become more open about it lately. But she has also changed her behaviour a bit. She is more vocal in the early part of the intercourse - especially when I enter her. When an orgasm is approaching she gets more focused and almost silent. To reach an orgams during intercourse is an effort for her and she has to concentrate a lot to get there. That is O.K for me as long as I know it.

This is the exciting part of sex. Every woman is an individual with her own way of enjoying sex and her own way of showing it.

sab0900

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Registered: 2005-08-30

Posts: 2

Re: Female orgasm

The way everone orgasms and what we do (moan, thrash about etc.) is different for all people.  There are physical ways to tell if a woman is faking it, but that is not practical for this site.  If you could see the vagina in mid coitus it would be very easy to tell as the genuine movements are very difficult to fake.

Garybob

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Registered: 2005-10-28

Posts: 174

Re: Female orgasm

Patrick, I have been with far too many women to count [and that's not something to be proud of]. I have serious trouble orgasming if my partner doesn't have an orgasm first. It's some kind of block with me but I say this only to let you know that in my experience(s), women orgasm in many different ways. Some are quiet, some are noisy. It is obvious if they are faking when they start screaming bloody murder and having seizures and stuff. But I have found that the more time you put into foreplay, the more excited a woman becomes. From there, the orgasm should be unmistakable. As long as you're not acting like a selfish bastard like most guys by being concerned only about yourself, you should have no problem discerning the real thing.

ptr45

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Registered: 2005-10-04

Posts: 34

Re: Female orgasm

There is no doubt that women respond differently to orgasm---there is ample evidence of that on this site! With some women it is quite easy to tell when they are cumming but I've found that with others the signs can be subtle. Moaning, writhing, gasping, and body thrashing might or might not correspond to a climax. Even vaginal contractions are not a sure sign in my view.  I knew one woman who contracted her PC muscle on purpose to build arousal. In her case the orgasms she got were obvious but I could imagine a woman doing something similar and also cumming a lot more quietly. How would an observer know for sure?

The best way, of course, is to simply ask the woman. I found that after being with the same person for a while I got to know her signs no matter how subtle they were. A little up-front communication really helps in a situation like that. Women who are very demonstrative when they cum are fun to watch, but the quiet cummers have their good points too. In a way their orgasms seem more intimate.

tom29

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From: San Diego, CA

Registered: 2009-08-28

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Re: Female orgasm

I grew up with a sister 7 years older than me and we shared the same bedroom in twin beds until I was 6.  Some of my earliest memories are waking up to her masturbating lying on her stomach with a humping motion, which is how I started when I was around 4 or 5.

When it became obvious to our parents that it was time for her to have her own room, we were both habitual, and were masturbating together.  I would often hear her heavy breathing and bed pounding at night.   By the time I had my first ejaculation she was in college and probably having sex with guys, but would still jerk off often with writhing and gasping orgasms when she was home, which I never mentioned to her.
 
She walked in on me once, however, when I was stark naked with a throbbing boner, and a pool of cum on my belly,  grinned at me and said, I thought thats what you were doing, you should be more quiet!