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_hyperballad_

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#4312 is Vicky_Z on ishotmyself

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Okay lovers I'm taking off to NYC til the 15th - feel free to post requests here & I'll get to them when I'm back at my desk.

If you miss me too much you can always go watch my Agonies: #0220

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UniqueNY

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The Museum of Sex is always a good bet

gutei

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Does Celine_H from IFM have a submission on this site?

sirgeorg

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Does Celine_H from IFM have a submission on this site?

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There has never been a better candidate for Ifeelmyself than#4324

Please say that she will do it!

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There has never been a better candidate for Ifeelmyself than#4324

Please say that she will do it!

I wish she was on ISM...

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There has never been a better candidate for Ifeelmyself than#4324

Please say that she will do it!

Sorry mate, that was an OS submission. We have asked her if she would like to get involved with ISM though Hopefully she will send us a shoot!

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I always have trouble finding this thread. Can't we make it a "sticky" thread like the "Your Agony WISHLIST!" thread? That would probably also reduce the number of people creating new threads for this type of questions.

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There has never been a better candidate for Ifeelmyself than#4324

Please say that she will do it!

I wish she was on ISM...

Actually I think she shouldn't even be on BA. She gives her full name at the very beginning of her confession. Just Google that name and you'll find she even has her own section on Pornhub.

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There has never been a better candidate for Ifeelmyself than#4324

Please say that she will do it!

I wish she was on ISM...

Actually I think she shouldn't even be on BA. She gives her full name at the very beginning of her confession. Just Google that name and you'll find she even has her own section on Pornhub.

Why do you think that precludes her from contributing here?

If I wanted to I could have my own little account on Pornhub too, does that make me a less deserving contributor?

Don't really understand this logic & it comes off really shamey...

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If I wanted to I could have my own little account on Pornhub too, does that make me a less deserving contributor?

You certainly could, but you don't and that's the difference. I really don't judge her at all, there are days I go straight for Pornhum and grateful for what I find there. If she can earn a living that way and is happy with it, more power to her. I just think it ruins the concept of BA, or at least what it's to me.

The charm of BA is that it's extremely erotic without being porn. It has an honesty and authenticity about it which I haven't found on any other site so far. Even with visual erotica your imagination plays a role and you hope (expect?) all contributions to be expressions of unsimulated ecstasy. Knowing the lady's day job is to fake orgasm on camera somehow just ruins it for me.

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I am literally self producing content at the moment & starting an onlyfans account as soon as I have enough stuff ready to go. Do I have to excuse myself from this site when I've done that?

I really feel like there is some cognitive dissonance occurring between what you think this site is & what it actually is.

The beautiful agony project is open to all & doesn't preclude anyone, if you can have an orgasm on camera & meet the technical requirements then your content is accepted. There are some professional SW folk on this site & they are just as deserving as non SW folk to be here & they are a part of what makes this space really special.

Agony represents people from such a huge spectrum of experience & backgrounds, I think it's awesome that we do have representation from people who typically do a very different kind of porn to beautiful agony.

You say you aren't judging but your comments are very narrow minded & reek of stigma. Sex workers who participate in mainstream porn don't ruin the concept of Beautiful Agony, they diversify it & that diversity is a huge part of what makes this site unique & amazing.

Aside from anything else, why do you think a woman who does mainstream porn work is inherently incapable of honesty & authenticity?

I'm just genuinely floored by this line of thinking.

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Redbird here. Penguin6 I have some questions I need clarified before I address this further. So if a woman fakes an orgasm on camera in mainstream porn you can't enjoy her having a genuine orgasm for BA and think that she shouldn't contribute to the site, yes? I assume this is because you can't "trust" that her orgasm for BA is genuine. What about women that have faked orgasms when they have sex recreationally, does that count too? If that's the case, I'm betting that a faaaaaair portion of the people on this site would be unacceptable to you, as I don't think I even know a single woman that hasn't faked or at least exaggerated an orgasm before. Or is it the fact that there is video evidence of them faking orgasms that makes you suspicious of the validity of their orgasms here? 

What I'm getting from your complaint is that someone who fakes orgasms on camera regularly shouldn't be here because you can't trust that their orgasm is genuine, but has it occurred to you that someone who has to fake orgasms regularly would actually really appreciate and embrace the opportunity to have a genuine orgasm on camera where they don't have to be "on" as it were, and they can just enjoy having a safe space for self pleasure?

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...or were you too busy judging a total stranger to even consider this?

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...or were you too busy judging a total stranger to even consider this?

Well stated Redbird... Too bad Forums don't have a Love button  <3

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Hi _hyperballad_ & Redbird,

First off, having re-read my initial comment I admit it was quite flippant, for which I apologize. I did not mean to brand any contribuor as "not deserving" or demean professional actors. Anyone who has the guts to share such a vulnerable and intimate moment with the rest of the world deserves respect, I for one would totally lack the balls to ever do it.

But at the risk of fanning the flame war, allow me to clarify the point I failed to make in my last post.

Everybody gets turned on or off by different things; vocal, silent, young, mature, male, female, etc. I'm quite sure Richard has the webstatistics to accurately predict which contributors will generate the most traffic, but as far as I'm concerned every preference is acceptable and none is mandatory.

Personally I'm a bit of a voyeur and find it a huge turn on if what I see appears to be real. I like to believe that what I'm witnessing is pretty much what would happen if the person were alone and without camera. Sure, it's almost impossible for us mortals to know if a woman is faking, and the very fact that the agonees know the camera is rolling probably influences their behaviour as well. But still I'm convinced that BA is closer to reality than 99.99% of what you'll find on pornhub et al. That's what draws me back to this site again and again.

So given the fact that "real" is my fetish, the knowledge that the lady in question is a professional actress just ruins my dirty little fantasy. A bit like going to a concert and getting the feeling the singer is playbacking. You know she's an excellent singer and you really like her songs, but the suspicion you're not witnessing a live act is a let down.

Does that mean lady #4324 shouldn't be on BA? Certainly not and I was wrong to say so. But I confess I'll be skipping her contribution.

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Personally, not that it really matters what I think, I just really enjoy watching orgasms. Its a huge turn on. However, who can really as who's are legitimate and whos are not? I mean... you never really can tell for absolute sure. Personally, it doesn't matter to me if a contributer has done porn before or not. If i find the attractive in any way at all, im going to enjoy watching them have an orgasm and im going to get turned on. Really, we're all here to enjoy ourselves both watchers abd participants. No need to judge

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I hope we're all clear on what is an opinion & preference now & the appropriate way to express it. Porn performer or not beautiful agony invites vulnerability from it's participants, I really believe it's a sacred thing in a land of sexual expression so it should definitely be respected.

Good talk everyone.

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Thanks for clarifying further Penguin.

More than anything I just hate the thought of the person discussed here seeing this thread and feeling attacked or judged. What we're doing is so personal and intimate that thoughtless comments like that can be very damaging. Thankfully we have some amazing moderators here, so whenever someone says something offensive it's handled very quickly, but please just be aware of what you say.

I've also contributed to other sites and have had some really hurtful and judgemental things said about how I should use the money I got from the shoots to have my teeth fixed, how I had an eating disorder (not actually true but I did have severe anxiety and was hideously underweight, so thanks for that fuckface), how I "ruined" my looks by getting tattoos. Some comments were said to actually be cruel and others were from people who consider themselves an authority on what I should and shouldn't do with my body/life. They made statements like yours and claimed that they "weren't judging" but in getting their opinion across they were extremely condescending and offensive.

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Has "Leena" from IFM got an Agony?

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I'm assuming you mean Leena_A?

If yes, then she is #4186

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Is Ms. 3940 on IFM?

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Is Ms. 3940 on IFM?

She has only done Agony & that will be her only contribution sorry!

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Ms 3611, 2917, 3835, 4065, 4009?