What happened to Ruby?

Justme · 2005-04-22 08:24:00

Sure, got for it!

asm2agny · 2005-04-22 12:45:23

ruby wrote:

I would like to . . . maybe to write a dissertation explaining what I am doing to myself down there
Any comments as to whether or not this would be interesting??

Yes, please! But better than writing, how about filming yourself and narrating what you're doing. Obviously we don't expect you to keep talking while you're having your orgasm(s). :-)

I would suggest you try a simple description of what you're doing, without embellishment. I think just hearing you say things like "I'm stroking my vulva with my finger" or "I'm sliding my dildo in and out pretty fast now" (or whatever you do to give yourself an orgasm) would be an *INCREDIBLE* turn-on!

Thanks!

Jakeview · 2005-04-22 19:41:13

Ruby, whatever you do next, I'm sure all of us will be ecstatic when it appears on the site. If you decide to describe what you're doing while you're doing it, you have my full support. One request: tell us the stages of buildup to orgasm. Like when you feel the initial rush, when you hit the no-turning-back moment and when your body takes over and begins its release(aka "I'm coming!") Of course, this is only if you're able. I'd rather you be silent if talking in any way disrupted your pleasure.

ruby · 2005-04-23 05:58:29

yeah, I kinda like that idea of giving a oral running commentary!

Only problem is will I get distracted? As I have said before, if I am distracted I can easily not reach my full climatic potential ;o

Maybe at certain important junctures I can recount in plain un-emotive language what I am doing.

Jakeview · 2005-04-23 09:53:26

Don't, by any means, distract yourself from your potential. We'll take what we get with the commentary, I'm sure, but we don't want you to short yourself of a full, blissed out agony. If you get to a point where talking will ruin things, concentrate on the "task at hand" and comment after you're finished.

Deeper · 2005-05-31 19:48:47

ruby wrote:

...in this instance the contributor has already submitted her 'undirected' agony, and is actively seeking suggestions...

Hmmm...

Well, I believe taping phone-sex has been mooted elsewhere. (okay, by me)

Perhaps agonising while reading erotic poetry aloud? ...or the kind of stories you can find at places such as http://www.literotica.com/

Perhaps you know of a friend with access to a Sybian...?

Sitting on the washing machine while it's set on "spin"? (ok... that's just a low spec sybian, but hey...)

Did you consider recording yourself whilst watching other agonees at play? (or while listening to the audio stories at the aforementioned literotica site?)

Hows about comparing and contrasting different fingering techniques...?

...or maybe a night-vision recording of an agony in the back seats at the cinema...

...or... okay. enough for now.

alaclark · 2005-08-13 20:52:11

alaclark wrote:

ruby wrote:
don't you mean...
ahhhhhhh, yes!
ahhhhhhh, yes!
ahhhhhhh, yes!
That's right, Ruby: teach 'em a bit of refinement!
Your mention of several successive orgasms (some agonees appear already to have achieved two or three?) reminds me of an unusual little passage of reportage about this, and the changing sensations of each -- the sixth and last, say, feeling a bit edgy and top-of-the-keyboard (metaphorically!) -- in a novel by, I think, Gaia Servadio. Don't believe I possess a copy now, but will try to check the publication details for you.

===
Ruby (sorry I misremembered your name as Susan, earlier today): well, less than four months later, here's the quote (nb COPYRIGHT, but this we take to be fair dealing for purposes of review):
MELINDA, by Gaia Servadio, translated by L.K.Conrad (1968) (Panther ed 1969, p.84)
[The whole page is well worth reading]

[...] She could do it a number of times one after another. After the first the pleasure was less intense, the sensation briefer, closer to pain. Three, Four. If there was a fifth it was a nervous one. Afterwards she needed a glass of whisky or an Alka Seltzer.
She remembered that as a little girl she would stay in bed for hours making love to herself, never having to dream up images of men or murmur names. Pleasure was an end in itself. Once in a while she would masturbate in front of a man: being watched gave her another kind of pleasure.
Further, deeper.
Again quickly, before David comes in[...]
Spasms, quicker and more often. She was nullifying herself in that hand. Then her breath came free and all thought was banished[...] The veins on her hands stood out and her legs quivered in a last, overwhelming spasm.
"Melinda, are you ready?"
"Darling, I've been making love to myself. Get undressed immediately." [...]

mcman58 · 2005-08-14 12:53:13

What is the # of Ruby's agony? I don't know if I've seen it or not. Which brings to mind and idea. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to search for a particular agony by NAME as some members do refer to the agonees that way? Or does a way to do that already exist. BTW, Ruby you sound so hot in the posts you right. You appear to be a loyal devotee to masturbation. I don't want to miss your agony. Mac

Iso · 2005-08-14 17:21:39

mcman58 wrote:

What is the # of Ruby's agony?

#0081

ruby wrote:

yeah, I kinda like that idea of giving a oral running commentary!
Only problem is will I get distracted? As I have said before, if I am distracted I can easily not reach my full climatic potential ;o

Do the agonee, then watch the agonee and record a commentary. The commentary could be audio-only, but it might be interesting to do video of your face while you're watching and talking about your agonee. It could then be run side-by-side like in one of the other overkills.

Or if you wanted to get extremely self-referencial, you could do one video of your agonee, one of your face as you watch that video, and then then a third video talkinging about one or both.

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salsasalsa · 2005-08-14 19:17:27

Or if you wanted to get extremely self-referencial, you could do one video of your agonee, one of your face as you watch that video, and then then a third video talkinging about one or both.

How about a video of the screen showing the video, regressing to infinity?

splat · 2005-08-16 19:41:17

ruby wrote:

yeah, I kinda like that idea of giving a oral running commentary!

I like it too

salsasalsa · 2005-08-16 23:01:34

Jakeview wrote:

Maybe the Agony staff could add a counter in the corner for each orgasm.;)

And maybe grade each one on a scale of 1 to 5 (oh! to oh! oh! oh! oh! oh!)
:-)

lauren · 2005-08-16 23:25:30

i don't think there will be any counters, all agonists are equal in my eyes...xo

erdna · 2005-08-17 03:54:12

Ruby, doing it in public doesn't mean necessarily to be in a crowded place. That can be in a public library sitting in a secluded corner and pretending reading a book. A girlfriend of mine told me she masturbated using the water jet of a bidet while her chum (a girl) was putting her make up in front of the bathroom mirror without being aware. Imagination is more important than knowledge said Einstein.
Lauren, easy to say everybody is equal. But actually, some agonees are really more exciting because more giving, more generous.
Back to Ruby, commenting the rise of your orgasm (the best you can do, we just need some short verbal cue) would be for me and many other the ultimate.

ZoomStrat · 2005-08-22 08:17:50

ruby wrote:

I also really like to give myself into the experience, which would be impossible for me if I was in public.
Still thinking, maybe I should set myself a challenge! (as it would seem rather arbitrary to accept the challenge of public masturbation if thats not what turns me on)
I would like to see how many orgasms I could have in succession and film them and maybe to write a dissertation explaining what I am doing to myself down there
Any comments as to whether or not this would be interesting??

I was reading up on one of the links on this site about how women's brain activity greatly decreases during orgasm, showing both that 1)Women go into a trance during orgasm, and are not able to think very well, and 2) Women must be relaxed to achieve the best orgasms. So, Ruby, I think this bears out what you are saying about distractions detracting from your orgasmic experience. Actually, that's the part that's most wonderful for me in an agony, seeing a woman start to glaze over and fall deep within herself, aware of nothing but the experience.

As far as the multiple orgasms go, I think that's a wonderful idea! My wife is wonderfully capable of virtually unlimited orgasms during clitoral stimulation when the surrounding conditions are right (arousal, relaxation), and it's incredibly engaging and erotic. I would love to see an agony of someone who just wears herself out with endless climaxes!

ruby · 2005-11-14 08:41:56

well, after a very long reprieve I am ready to accept the challenge of a dual agony- I really like the idea of providing a running commentary, as it would also give me insight into the process and rise and peak of each climax.

I especially like the idea of filming my face watching my own agony and commenting!

Any ideas from others?

ruby x

pinguin · 2005-11-14 09:38:04

ruby wrote:

I especially like the idea of filming my face watching my own agony and commenting!
Any ideas from others?
ruby x

Great Ruby, way to go! I think anthing you decide to do would be beautiful, but could you please break with the current trend of "head on a pillow" contributions? I understand that this is the most comfortable and safest setting, but I'm a huge fan of those early contributions that were filmed in a different environment. Just look up those agonies that were filmed in the bathroom, park, garden, living room. Those really were special.

Would you dare to do an agony outdoors? Or maybe even in a public place? You could comment on what was happening around you as well.

Pinguin

Bishop Of Bath & Wells · 2005-11-14 18:34:21

Yaaaay, Ruby's back!!

We thought you'd abandoned us forever!

Bish

ruby · 2005-11-15 05:30:12

Bishop Of Bath & Wells wrote:

Yaaaay, Ruby's back!!
We thought you'd abandoned us forever!
Bish

no! always still here

Justme · 2005-11-15 13:33:38

Welcome back!!!

ruby · 2005-11-16 01:55:46

thanks

doing the agony vid today- so pretty excited about some the ideas i have.
don't want to reveal too much... suffice to say that i wish i could do this every day

Tellin · 2005-11-16 05:26:26

ruby wrote:

suffice to say that i wish i could do this every day

So do we, Ruby, so do we.

erdna · 2005-11-16 06:23:57

ruby, nice to hear about you again. Any idea about when your video will be available on BA. Is it an Overkill one? I think you mentioned about doing an agony in a public place, isn't it! Maybe this is the surprise. Looking foward to see that.

ruby · 2005-11-16 07:24:43

ok, video done i took it upon myself the satisfy the following challenges;

1. rate each orgasm out of 1-5, 1 being low and 5 being oh, oh, oh!
2. keep an orgasm tally- although i did loose count towards the end
3. provide an oral narration... 'now i am stroking my clit...'
4. straddle the indoor/ outdoor divide in terms of location (but keep you guessing)
5. be in beautiful agony for 60 mins.......

time to take a nap, i am worn out
as to where and when the vid is up, need to see what the boss lady says about that!

Ruby xo

Tellin · 2005-11-16 10:14:42

Can't wait!

Would a bribe expedite the process, Lauren?

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