When did you have your first orgasm?

#2547 · 2012-09-21 23:20:49

This thread is one of my all time favourites. I find it so interesting how many people naturally reach that stage at 12, yet I was taught to be ashamed of it.

http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/T50BO864EELUN5TIL

What's your first orgasm story? I don't remember mine actually. I know I was 12 when it started but I guess that time was all just a bit of a blur. I think I started getting wet for the first time soon after that, so thinking it was sperm I thought I was some kind of hermaphrodite for several months.

Abstinence · 2012-09-21 23:38:00

Mine was at 12 as well. I had been having erections for many years, and playing with them, but on this occasion I must have been rubbing it, and to my surprise I was overcome by this pleasant throbbing feeling. No sperm came out (that didn't start till about a year and a half later). Naturally I immediately tried to repeat the pleasant experience, but without success...I was reckoning without the dreaded refractory period!

mariem · 2012-09-23 16:52:37

Hmmm yes, must have been 12, but close to 13 I think.....
It was like my big secret at that time

mariem · 2012-09-23 17:11:18

#2547 wrote:

yet I was taught to be ashamed of it.

Did you feel ashamed each time you had an orgasm?

#2572 · 2013-01-03 09:07:04

The first one I remember thinking "I've just had an orgasm." was age 19. alone in South Ealing, late for work, in my receptionist outfit, shuddering from a cheap vibrator I'd bought from a greasy man in a sex shop in Soho.
I was so ashamed to have a sex toy, I kept it wrapped up in a cloth in a drawer with the batteries out in case it turned on when I wasn't there.

mariem · 2013-01-03 15:34:59

#2572 wrote:

The first one I remember thinking "I've just had an orgasm." was age 19. alone in South Ealing, late for work, in my receptionist outfit, shuddering from a cheap vibrator I'd bought from a greasy man in a sex shop in Soho.
I was so ashamed to have a sex toy, I kept it wrapped up in a cloth in a drawer with the batteries out in case it turned on when I wasn't there.

How long did you use the vibrator before your first orgasm?

I still keep my stuff in a locked box

wanda.del.rio · 2013-02-05 00:24:22

.. I started earlier I dont even know when but around 10 or so.. actually first I had no information about I was doing ,just it felt very awesome and it helped me to sleep better

Siskelsghost · 2013-07-22 22:21:09

11 for me was already starting a stash of lingerie models from the sunday papers , and then got a sexy photo shoot of Gillian Anderson from tv guide and was up late gazing with a hard on and I knew about sex but not masturbation .

Started humping the mattress and when I came I first thought it was urine lol

#2817 · 2013-07-26 18:57:38

I had my first "kind-of-sexual" experience when I was about 8 and I found some porn magazines from my father, but I didn't know at all what was these feelings so I really didn't have an orgasm.

My second experience happened when I was 14, I started touching myself totally at random and I finally cum. It was really weird because I didn't know at all what was that, but from then I haven't stop yet!!!

#2836 · 2013-09-02 06:07:03

I started when I was young, just playing in the bath, and I let the water run onto my clit. Though I didnt know it was my clit at the time. It just felt nice, and I had that build up feeling and all. After that was when I used a back massager from my house, but again, I thought it was just nice, not realising what I was actually doing. Then when I first started having sex, on my 17th birthday, I believe I went out and bought a vibrator pretty much right away. I was rather disappointed with sex, I didn't know what I was doing and neither did he. So as you can imagine, one he would cum. But with the help of my vibrator, I was able to get off - though never with him - not even with him in the room. Too hard to concentrate. I really found my passion for sex when I was 18, travelling, and living on my own. Ah, good times

#2877 · 2013-10-04 06:42:47

Not til 20 with my first boyfriend ... I had played with myself and felt horny and hot and everything but I never came ... It was really amazing, I guess when I was younger I didnt really know what to expect, but with my BF I knew what orgasm was and I got it ! YEAY !

Ronin87 · 2014-04-08 16:14:31

I dont think I can remember my first orgasm specifically.

I remember playing and it getting hard. I always looked at the lingerie models in my mums Freemans catalogue (shows my age). I always used to play whilst looking at those but never got to orgasm. I always got butterflies and excitement but never came.
I think the first time I must have been about 12 or 13 and I was watching something on the telly on my own and i think I just kept rubbing and then I had this amazing sensation (quite a messy sensation). Its quite an addictive feeling really lol!

GAT1964 · 2014-04-30 14:12:11

I started playing around with a friend around 8-9 and remembering getting the sensation of coming but not. I knew what it was, for some reason I was active early, I remember the first time I came was after masturbating when using shaving cream as the lubricant, now the smell of shaving cream always takes me back there.

mariem · 2014-05-10 15:25:39

#2817 wrote:

My second experience happened when I was 14, I started touching myself totally at random and I finally cum. It was really weird because I didn't know at all what was that, but from then I haven't stop yet!!!

How often do you have orgasms now?

jg25578 · 2014-06-16 18:18:22

My first orgasm happened as a result of someone (a same-sex friend) told me about masturbation. I had to be somewhere between 10 and 12 at the time. Anyway, he explained what to do and I went and tried it. I locked myself in the room and laid back on the bed, started stroking and next thing I knew it felt amazing and a strange feeling came over me. It felt better and better by the second and suddenly an explosion of pleasure in my abdomen and genitals that felt so incredibly good it actually scared me! I immediately stopped stimulating myself and at one point I heard something hit my ceiling.

Once I had recovered from what I later learned was an orgasm, I got up and search around my room but could find no signs of what had hit my ceiling. I had low tile ceilings and was on a platform bed so it was only maybe 4 feet or so to the ceiling. I credit that to strong pre-teen PC muscles lol.

The experience scared me so bad, I waited several weeks to try it again. I was terrified that I had hurt myself or broken something. It was pleasure, but nothing like I had ever experienced before and so it felt abnormal and somehow I knew I should keep it a secret. But then I tried it again at some point and everything worked very normally and much the same way as it does today. It was a normal ejaculation and orgasm and quite enjoyable.

That began my long masturbation career which ended up being sometimes 4 or more times per day. It helped to balance me, kept me out of trouble as a teenager and felt amazing! Oh I could tell you guys some stories lol. Lots of crazy stories from my early masturbation days.

atom26 · 2014-06-28 21:36:29

I didn't have my first orgasm until my second boyfriend! My first I dated from 16-21 and he was fairly clueless. I used to fake them because he seemed to expect it and I didn't really get that I should be fighting for my own pleasure.

My second boyfriend gave me an orgasm on the first night I slept with him. I remember feeling very proud of myself and very smug! My mother walked in on us the next morning and he dived under the covers and she just calmly said hello and asked me what I wanted from the shops.

She was a great role model as she was very open. I'm surprised that I never really thought about masturbation until AFTER I had my first orgasm. Then there was a reason to try. Before then I didn't know what I was missing.

This is my first time in the forum, I only joined today. I love beautiful agony already. Porn made for men doesn't turn me on, and a lot of porn which is supposed to be for women isn't really, or doesn't do the trick. There is something so arousing and intimate about watching someone's face when they orgasm. I'm straight, but I find it fascinating watching the women as well as the men.

jg25578 · 2014-07-07 12:16:15

Welcome atom26! Glad you found the site too and I hope you enjoy your experience. I'm addicted to the eroticism of what I find here. :-)

falseshuffler · 2014-09-06 23:34:36

I was fourteen. I'd heard talk of masturbating (though not by that word) and an older boy (really a pretty nice guy) told a couple of us younger kids about it and took out his erect penis and showed us how to stroke (he didn't go so far as to ejaculate). He told us not to be afraid when some" thick white stuff" shot out. Sort of like white paint, he said. That evening I gave it a try (I'd been getting spontaneous erections for some time). . . . . I was suddenly in another world, and I wasn't afraid when something like white paint shot out. It's been many years and I haven't stopped since. (I once came in second in a 'who can shoot the farthest" contest in a friends garage. There were five of us. Kids!)

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