#1 2007-04-18 10:37:10

Maigrey

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Registered: 2007-04-17

Posts: 3

So what makes you do it?

I'm sure the question has been asked before, but what is the driving force behind posting your videos?

I understand the beauty and the art behind this website, but what exactly is the drive behind those who submit videos?  I find it hard to believe that its a simple act of exhibitionism for all.  There must be something more to it.  Is it because you don't want to be a part of this great community?  Because you see no reason not to share your agony with others?  Because you don't feel it should be something private?  Or maybe it was just a dare, or something you didn't think you could do?

I'm interested to know what brings those who submit their agony to actually do it.

Maigrey

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Registered: 2007-04-17

Posts: 3

Re: So what makes you do it?

Lots of views but no responses?

ashmedi

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From: S of the North 49th - Canada

Registered: 2006-03-10

Posts: 223

Re: So what makes you do it?

Lots of views but no responses?

It's one of the shiest forums anywhere, not many talk. 

But on the other hand, it is extremely likely that the majority of agonees never joined the forum, and therefor, will never know you asked the question.

You might get better response from IFM or (just guessing at this) ISM.
Both sites have more active forums and IFM does have some contributors who are forum members and not shy about posting.

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Ashmedi is an ancient god of rage and lust. I don't feel rage, but the lust part fits like a glove.

"Cheer up, things could be worse" somebody once told me. So I cheered up, and sure enough, things got worse.

Maigrey

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Registered: 2007-04-17

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Re: So what makes you do it?

That makes sense.  I didn't really think about that.

kitkat2

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Registered: 2006-07-19

Posts: 18

Re: So what makes you do it?

I submitted because I wanted the chance to talk about my experiences in the confessions, and about my beliefs surrounding sexuality and orgasm. 

I also feel that my sexual self over my life has been largely misrepresented in the sexual media at large, IE, how a woman/person is supposed to be and this was a chance to show (so far) how far I had come (pardon the pun) away from that external image.  Because it did affect my sexual image as a younger woman, and it has been a long journey to begin to discover what makes me tick internally.   My ultimate goal is to share my complete orgasmic self in a state of complete inhibition, but I haven't got there yet.  Orgasm is a state of bliss and depth in a human being, and it needs to be seen.  I was happy to be a part of the project to document that fact and also a stage in my own journey.

ashmedi

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From: S of the North 49th - Canada

Registered: 2006-03-10

Posts: 223

Re: So what makes you do it?

Hey Kitkat

Has your submission been accepted and is it up there ??
If so, do you mind sharing the number so I could put a face to your name?

BTW, welcome to BA 

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Ashmedi is an ancient god of rage and lust. I don't feel rage, but the lust part fits like a glove.

"Cheer up, things could be worse" somebody once told me. So I cheered up, and sure enough, things got worse.

kitkat2

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Registered: 2006-07-19

Posts: 18

Re: So what makes you do it?

Has your submission been accepted and is it up there ??
If so, do you mind sharing the number so I could put a face to your name?

ah, the joys of anonymity....
is that a tease?

I"ll tell you if you agree to submit!

ashmedi

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From: S of the North 49th - Canada

Registered: 2006-03-10

Posts: 223

Re: So what makes you do it?

I"ll tell you if you agree to submit!

Well KittyKat, You wouldn't want to see mine, trust me. 

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Ashmedi is an ancient god of rage and lust. I don't feel rage, but the lust part fits like a glove.

"Cheer up, things could be worse" somebody once told me. So I cheered up, and sure enough, things got worse.

lauren

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Registered: 2005-01-03

Posts: 681

Re: So what makes you do it?

Ashmedi, i'd love to recieve a submission from you.

Lauren xo

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"Good sex is like good bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand"

kitkat2

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Registered: 2006-07-19

Posts: 18

Re: So what makes you do it?

I"ll tell you if you agree to submit!

Well KittyKat, You wouldn't want to see mine, trust me. 

Well, hang on a minute - isn't this site about non-judgement and the beauty of all types of faces in that ecstatic state?  Don't be so hard on yourself, and, remember, that's your judgement anyway.  In my experience, whenever I have thought people were judging or critical, they were actually the opposite.   You might be surprised by what people think!