#1 2021-04-21 09:17:38

tori999

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Registered: 2020-06-06

Posts: 16

Are men really this quiet?

BA fascinates me in many ways, not least the fact that all orgasms are different and the way that the most interesting of them seem to open windows to very different souls.

I'm most familiar with the ladies, who range from the highly demonstrative who thrash around and make quite a lot of noise to those who are completely silent and hardly bat an eyelid. Right across this range, there are orgasms which are obviously deeply intense - and, of course, there are probably those which are less earth-shaking. The majority seem to be fairly quiet (none the worse for that!), and relatively few contributors even announce that their orgasm is imminent - much to my personal disappointment, but I admit that that's just me.

I've watched far fewer of the men, but my impression is that most of them are also quiet (a large proportion almost silent apart from a gasp when 'it' happens) - far from the awful stereotype of the 'bellowing lustful male'. I've also yet to hear any actually say that they are coming, which surprises me rather - though, if there are any, I'd be grateful if someone would point me in their direction.

Perhaps I shouldn't be surprised at any of this - though it's one of the many intriguing things I find about BA. Does anyone else have any thoughts here?

richard

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Registered: 2005-01-04

Posts: 692

Re: Are men really this quiet?

I'm curious about this - do you announce when you're masturbating alone?

ashmedi1

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From: Canada - South of North 49th

Registered: 2008-05-01

Posts: 924

Re: Are men really this quiet?

I don't, but I am listening to my fantasy lover as she gives some sign...

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Tuxedo101

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Registered: 2011-06-09

Posts: 230

Re: Are men really this quiet?

I think some of the men have been louder in Friends videos with their partners.  Some women also.  Orgasming alone and orgasming with someone else may well inspire different levels of volume.  (Certainly in my personal experience and in watching BA.)

Perfect example is 3760 and her partner 3936.  3760's solo videos are already pretty expressive.  3936's solo videos are not overly expressive or vocal.  But in their Friends video they both become screamers.  They actually orgasm together and are both very vocal and pull a lot of funny faces.

Last edited by Tuxedo101 (2021-04-22 02:19:39)

jbnsix

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Registered: 2015-11-22

Posts: 3

Re: Are men really this quiet?

Interesting observation. Watching 3764 his partner actually says something about him being quiet (about the 8 min mark).  Agree that having a partner seems to make a difference being more vocal.

Artist_5325

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Registered: 2021-12-17

Posts: 5

Re: Are men really this quiet?

Hi Tori999, I would say for me that I wouldn't be quiet if I could but I guess I have learned from early on that masturbation is a very private and discreet activity. The aura of negativity that surrounds it made me learn to nuzzle myself and avoid making too much noise.

But you make me realise that this is just a forced action. In a real gooning situaiton, I'd love to be as loud and expressive as I can and want.

Thank you for pointing this out!
S.