#1 2005-12-08 04:47:12

Garybob

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Agony #420....WTF???

C'maaaaaaaan!!! Are you kidding!??

Tellin

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Registered: 2005-10-20

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Something wrong Garybob?

Please don't tell me that you are saying something negative about someone who is sharing one of the most intimate times of their lives with us just because you don't like what you see?

You have been a member here long enough to know that we disdain that here. Remember that you DO have traits that someone else doesn't like, even though they have not told you.

And I'm sure that you would not like those traits exposed for several thousand people to see.

Last edited by Tellin (2005-12-08 06:19:48)

richard

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

C'maaaaaaaan!!! Are you kidding!??

What are we kidding about?

Garybob

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Alow me to clarify:

The "are you kidding" questions is referring to the orgasm? Did she even have one? It appeared to me that she stopped whatever she was doing before the big "O". The "negative" you surmised in my commentary was disappointment at not catching the happy ending. Nothing to do with the person. If anyone else saw an orgasm in this clip, please tell me cuz I sure didn't!!! Clip ended just as she seemed to be getting to the good part.

As for me having traits that someone else doesn't like, I'm sure that I have many like most people.

Tellin, you said something interesting to me. That being the disdain for disapproving commentary relative to any particular submission. Does the protocol here demand only comments of approval??? Are individuals barred from posting dissent views??? Must we all walk the same walk in order to be part of "the group"?

I do not ask this sarcastically but I am intrigued by the remark. Yes, I have been a member here for some time, but I am still learning the rules of engagement. So please tell me, if I see a clip that I find unworthy of positive commentary, must I refrain altogether from commentary or risk bannishment?

Just asking!

Bishop Of Bath & Wells

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

I thought #0420 was a lovely, intimate clip. She clearly had an orgasm from what I could see, in the final thirty seconds or so..........granted, this was one of the more 'low-key' orgasms on the site, but if BA has taught me one thing so far it is that no one person is the same, i.e. EVERY person featured on this site expresses their 'moment of truth' differently.

I'll let you in on a little secret...........even though I regard myself as a massive fan of BA, there are *plenty* of clips which leave me totally cold, not because I think they're fake or anything, but simply because they don't 'push my button'..........when this happens I simply don't comment, and patiently wait to see what the next day brings.

Bish

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"Today is the beginning of whatever comes next. Stop running, confront, and conquer!"

Garybob

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Perfectly sensible plan of action Bishop....no comment!

Yet I am still curious about the "rules" as they apply here in this particular forum. What if I, or anyone were to make a negative comment about a particular post?

Look, in some neighborhoods, for example, there home-owner's associations which largely set the standard for the community. They have bylaws by which a homeowner within the association's jurisdiction must abide by such as, what color you can paint your house or whether or not you can have a visible air-conditioning unit on your roof, whether or not you can build a fence around your front yard, etc... In order to live there, you have to conform to the dictates and mandates of the community. If freedom of expression is your thing, then you simply have to choose somewhere else to live!

So, I am just curious about the bylaws in this neighborhood, if you will. What will happen if I put a big thumb's down sign on my front lawn???

Garybob

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Particularly given that I have traits that some do not like!

Tellin

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From: Pennsylvania

Registered: 2005-10-20

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Garybob,

There are no set rules for posts like yours. However we have said in numerous posts that because these wonderful people are sharing with us it is in bad taste to express disapproval because you, personally, do not like what they offer.

This is them, being themselves. Maybe they don't scream out in agony or gradually build the way we, ourselves, envision as "perfect."

Let's put it this way. If you were to post an agony, would you feel hurt if someone said that they didn't like the way you come? Wouldn't it make you feel that maybe there was something you were doing wrong or maybe something that you are missing?

Maybe they were nervous or it was an off day. Maybe they weren't really in the mood but because of opportunity they memorialized it anyway. Or maybe that's just them. Not all orgasms are flashy and loud! Not everyone writhes around the bed.

I am in the US and I am all for freedom of speech, and you, in my opinion, have every right to express yours. But just because you can, doesn't mean you should!

Garybob

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Registered: 2005-10-28

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Tellin, very well said and much appreciation for answering my question. In part! But does it mean "you" shouldn't?

So it is clear(er) that disapproval is best kept silent. What happens if it is not is still a mystery but one I can live with.

The "comments like yours" part still puzzles me especially since I clarified, or so I had thought, the source of my "dissaproval". A puzzlement I can also live with.

In any case, I am sure that I have an accurate view on how to go along to get along in this neighborhood.

Thank you for your open and honest discourse.

erdna

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Registered: 2005-06-30

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Garybob, I agree with you. It seems however that I saw in  the part of this site on how to submit an agony the following sentence: "It has to be beautiful".

Garybob

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Re: Agony #420....WTF???

Well, there ya go!