Forum rules?

uri · 2008-06-11 18:41:11

Question to the forum moderators because my forum text 0671, a certain something:
What are the criterions to get censored by writhing a forum contribution? Are there any special forum rules posted?
A censor makes me feel insecure, by writing to the forum.

ashmedi · 2008-06-11 22:14:43

Uri

I am not an admin or mod so I am only answering from my own perspective.
I remember roughly what you said and I personally did not think the comments were negative, merely truths in your eyes. I also believe that the comments could have been construed as negative feedback by anyone else reading them including the adorable Ms 0671, altho for all I know, she may appreciated and even understood your honest and open comments.
It's sometimes better to NOT speak your truth if it could be interpreted as a negative view and hold those comments to yourself.

As my mother drilled into me many times over the years "If you can't say something nice, then don't say anything" I would forget it and carry on with life.

lauren · 2008-06-12 00:40:24

Hi,

I felt that the comment may be misinterpreted was all. Uri, I thoroughly enjoy your contribution to the forums, no need to feel insecure, agony would be lonely without you.

Lauren xo

uri · 2008-06-12 06:55:52

Hi Laura and Ashmedi,
thank you for your helpful answers. Possibly my text wasnt clear understandable. Thats why I would like to explain what my really message was:
I would set the 0671 girl into a positive contrast to all these, from magazines and films dictated standard, stereotyped ideas about beauty. For your own judgement, the two posts again.

My text:
0671, a certain something.
Shes definitely not Hefs playmate of the month, a Vogues fashion cover girl or some other way a Glamour girl. But nevertheless shes much more a beauty, because shes natural, lovely and not affected in her expression. She has something frankly, genuine, a very special erotic. I like this, on her own personal way, beautiful lady and also her sincere confession.

Modificated:
0671, a certain something.
Shes a beauty, because shes natural, lovely and not affected in her expression. She has something frankly, genuine, a very special erotic. I like this, on her own personal way, beautiful lady and also her sincere confession.

cate · 2008-06-13 01:07:04

Uri as a contributor I can understand why Lauren would remove that comment and I would too. You may have written it with the best of intentions but it reads pretty badly, even offensivly. I get that you wanted to set up a contrast between conceptions of beauty but it just feels like pointing out failings and flaws. Was it really necessary to re post the comment? I really don't think it's something Miss 671 would really want to read.

Also a quick end note if you want Lauren to be the nicest most forgiving moderator ever it'd help if you got her name right.

Cate also known as Ms359

Last edited by cate (2008-06-13 01:07:41)

uri · 2008-06-13 08:10:06

Thank you Cate for your answer. Sometimes its really difficult for me, to write about a view, created from a feeling and bring it over, on a way that everybody on the world, understand correctly.
So now I hope, all my past 201 forum posts, havent got misunderstood. I dont want to be insulting. I know, text about sex and beautiful agony is a very sensitive topic and its a high risk, of unintentional injury.

By the way, do you know? On our internet-planet, 6500 (!) different languages are spoken.

uri · 2008-06-13 08:15:13

Oh, I am sorry . Lauren and not Laura. Sorry again.

lauren · 2008-06-15 23:51:59

uri wrote:

Oh, I am sorry . Lauren and not Laura. Sorry again.

Thanks Uri,

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