Wedding proposals??

Khanada · 2005-04-15 18:51:06

First of all, I'll begin by saying that I am a woman, just to clarify things . I'm in awe of the Beautiful Agony project and believe that it is perhaps the most erotic thing I have ever had the privilege to view outside of my own bedroom. Although I'm in a relationship with a man, I only ever look at the women on the site (and anywhere else), since I've never found male erotica to be stimulating. Perhaps this can be another topic for discussion.

I enjoy, as well, the comments feature that accompanies the Overkill clips. However, I've been surprised by how many men who post there proclaim that they would marry the woman in the clip if only they lived in the same place that she does.

So this is just to inform you men out there that, despite what you may think, saying you'd marry someone that you don't even know is NOT the highest compliment you can pay a woman . Frankly, I think it's demeaning and a bit creepy. Why can't we just admire these very sensual women for their beauty and open willingness to participate in this project and leave it at that?

moonhanger05 · 2005-04-15 20:47:58

Khanada,

I did not offer a proposal to 233, but I did say she IMO is the most beautiful of all the agonees, (admittedly I havent seen them all). I also said "I think I'm in love". It was not my intent to demean this beautiful woman in any way, far from it.

Khanada · 2005-04-15 21:37:41

Moonhanger05,

I know that it wasn't your, or anyone's, intent to demean or cause harm, and please do not take this as an accusation. I sincerely apologize if my post has offended or hurt anyone's feelings! It was more of a general statement not directed at any one person in particular. I would be fine explaining what I meant further if anyone is interested in hearing, but please do accept my apology if you felt personally attacked by my post.

moonhanger05 · 2005-04-15 21:59:54

I absolutely did not feel as if you were attacking me, based upon your first comment, you probably had not read my comment anyway. However, I took the point of your message to heart and just wanted to make perfectly clear what my intentions were.

Jo · 2005-04-15 23:10:08

Khanada wrote:

So this is just to inform you men out there that, despite what you may think, saying you'd marry someone that you don't even know is NOT the highest compliment you can pay a woman ... Why can't we just admire these very sensual women for their beauty and open willingness to participate in this project and leave it at that?

I am absolutely with you and am glad that finally (!!!) a woman has the courage to talk about this subject. For me (as a man...) I also have the impression that all vids are just taken as a matter of course and are just *consumed*. (Too) often you hear the wish (or better:greed?) for *more*, *bigger* and *better* STUFF (!) and some minutes later there is the wedding thing... It does not fit together...

I hope there is at least some few people who see the contributors vids as a PRESENT to all of us who look and enjoy...

Khanada wrote:

Although I'm in a relationship with a man, I only ever look at the women on the site (and anywhere else), since I've never found male erotica to be stimulating. Perhaps this can be another topic for discussion.

Oh yes, great idea for another topic! Is it that you don´t find male erotica stimulating because you aren´t touched by (male) pictures in general or is it that you miss the *soul-touching* aspect in all erotica that is offered?

Khanada · 2005-04-15 23:42:14

Hi, Jo, glad to have you join the conversation . I think I'll start a new thread with that other topic in mind and hopefully get some interesting feedback--I'd be interested to hear the input of other women on this (and men as well!). Just wanted to direct your attention over that way so you know I'll be responding to you.

Ell · 2005-04-16 06:00:00

Welcome Khanada, I think I know what you're getting at on the marriage proposal thing but I do think it's pretty well tongue in cheek fun and isn't intended to carry any of the "the best that you could hope for is a marriage proposal" type baggage. Still, if it nudges folks into being a bit more creative with their comments that's probably not a bad thing. [:)] I'm a bit fond of pledges of undying love from strangers myself.

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