#1 2005-07-14 23:36:30

erdna

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Registered: 2005-06-30

Posts: 441

their deep motivation ?

You can laugh at me but I just discovered after one month the overkill archives where one can hear about several girls motivation on why they do it on BA. They say about this : sharing with others intimate moments...thinking orgasm is the most beautiful thing... But everything they say stays very nebulous about why they really do it. Here is a sort of explanation. Though I am not a sociologist or anthropologist or whatever...ist, I noticed that a good amount of the girls on BA have discreet piercing (very often on their tongue) or tatoo. For decades women have been told and raised to behave themselves while men could do about anything. Now is the time seemingly for women of all free countries (and Internet allows it) to express themselves without asking anybody's permission. Piercing, tattooing, wearing thong and showing up in BA for me seems to be of the same kind of expression. Women are telling us, members, parents, friends... that their body and what they do with it is their own business.They own their body and their soul, this the message. After so many years of repression, it's about time and congratulations to all of them. For sure they are exhibitionists (as one girl tells us after her agony) but also they have on BA their 5-10 minutes of worldwide glory as real stars, and stars they really are. Congratulations to the owners of this site to have made that possible.

Lago NY

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Registered: 2005-06-29

Posts: 13

Re: their deep motivation ?

I'm someone who doesn’t, necessarily consider myself  an exhibitionist, sexually speaking. But I considered submitting purely on the basis of wanting to contribute and belong to something that was unique, artistic and aesthetically gratifying. And, oh yeah...it seemed like a really cool and fun thing to do. The home page is a different kind of forum with an otherwise universal text. If you can see or hear it you can participate.

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erdna

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Registered: 2005-06-30

Posts: 441

Re: their deep motivation ?

Hello Lago NY : First your name : nice play of words. No problem with people contributing to something unique, artistic ...and fun. But a person couldn't have done that 30 years ago since the trend (and the technology) wasn't there. Remember my topic : their deep motivation, when I say deep, I mean : why basically people do that. What is their profound drive to do it. It can be unconscious but this is something interesting to investigate.The fact that people do it for the uniqueness or fun does not mean there is not a more subtle motivation. ie. I own my body or enough with the sexual repression or I want my 10 minutes of glory or I want to be a bit scandalous (cool as you say). For sure BA is a very nice project and I wish it long life. On the other hand, thanks for your suggestion for the home page as other kind of forum. Also if by any chance you are from NY then we are neighbour.