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If you're out there, what do you hump to get off? It's the only way I can get off and I usually use a balled up T-shirt. Why can't I cum using my fingers? Is it as simple as "On the road of life, there are fingerers and there are humpers?"
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Hey, if you can get off at all, why knock it? There are women (and men, I suppose) who have never had an orgasm; I'd consider yourself lucky that you can come at all.
For what it's worth, I've known women who could only get themselves off by humping something, by rubbng their clit, with a vibrator, by sticking their fingers in their vaginas, from intercourse, from having someone lick their clit, with a hand-held shower massager, or from a combination of one or more of these things all at one.
I see it more as "on the road of life, there are people who know what it takes to make themselves come, and those who don't"; I know which camp I'm in, and I'm thankful for it!
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Girls generally like to play with themselves using an object, while boys are happy with direct hand stimulation. My girlfreind at Uni used a bic biro on the outside of her pants, so it slipped up and down easily over her clit, and she allowed me to watch as she came.
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If you're out there, what do you hump to get off? It's the only way I can get off and I usually use a balled up T-shirt. Why can't I cum using my fingers? Is it as simple as "On the road of life, there are fingerers and there are humpers?"
Welcome to BA, pianogurl.
Ignoring the somewhat "male" responses posted so far, (and apologising for the somewhat "male" response which follows) all I can suggest is that everyone is different.
I doubt anybody out there knew insitctively what to do and where to do it at first. If you are anything like me, it's quite likely that you discovered the ability to get yourself off by accident... and that happy accident is your current favoured method. Anyway: experimentation is fun. ...and you don't HAVE to do it the way anyone else does, huh?.
There's no right or wrong about it. There are people out there who claim to achieve orgasm by the power of their minds alone... others who need hours of industrial power toolage to get themselves close...
Welcome to the road of life.
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I see it more as "on the road of life, there are people who know what it takes to make themselves come, and those who don't"; I know which camp I'm in, and I'm thankful for it!
Now there's a motto.
As for the intended topic, not surprisingly, I am interested. There are some agonies here with that in them. We know you're out there . . . .
"There is always room for something more."
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